Ok, basically we paid $18 plus for this online quiz thingy where we answer a lot of questions about ourselves. & they generate this thingy about us: (the below are my top 5 qualities)
Tang Wei Mun Empathy You can sense the emotions of those around you. (true...) You can feel what they are feeling as though their feelings are your own. Intuitively, you are able to see the world through their eyes and share their perspective. You do not necessarily agree with each person's perspective. You do not necessarily feel pity for each person's predicament-this would be sympathy, not Empathy. (yup) You do not necessarily condone the choices each person makes, but you do understand. This instinctive ability to understand is powerful. You hear the unvoiced questions. You anticipate the need. Where others grapple for words, you seem to find the right words and the right tone. You help people find the right phrases to express their feelings-to themselves as well as to others. You help them give voice to their emotional life. For all these reasons other people are drawn to you.(are they?? o.O) Adaptability You live in the moment.(TRUE!) You don't see the future as a fixed destination. (yar)Instead, you see it as a place that you create out of the choices that you make right now. And so you discover your future one choice at a time. (so true!) This doesn't mean that you don't have plans. You probably do. But this theme of Adaptability does enable you to respond willingly to the demands of the moment even if they pull you away from your plans. Unlike some, you don't resent sudden requests or unforeseen detours. You expect them. They are inevitable. (ya) Indeed, on some level you actually look forward to them. (ugh, not exactly) You are, at heart, a very flexible person who can stay productive when the demands of work are pulling you in many different directions at once. (NO I am not flexible!)
Developer You see the potential in others. (^^)Very often, in fact, potential is all you see. (ops...) In your view no individual is fully formed. On the contrary, each individual is a work in progress, alive with possibilities. And you are drawn toward people for this very reason. When you interact with others, your goal is to help them experience success. You look for ways to challenge them. (ugh... I don't..) You devise interesting experiences that can stretch them and help them grow. And all the while you are on the lookout for the signs of growth-a new behavior learned or modified, a slight improvement in a skill, a glimpse of excellence or of "flow" where previously there were only halting steps. For you these small increments-invisible to some-are clear signs of potential being realized. These signs of growth in others are your fuel. (ISIT??) They bring you strength and satisfaction. Over time many will seek you out for help and encouragement because on some level they know that your helpfulness is both genuine and fulfilling to you.
Positivity You are generous with praise, quick to smile, (^^) and always on the lookout for the positive in the situation.(ERR not really... I can be totally pessimistic and emo at times...most of the time actually.) Some call you lighthearted. Others just wish that their glass were as full as yours seems to be. But either way, people want to be around you. Their world looks better around you because your enthusiasm is contagious.(wow) Lacking your energy and optimism, some find their world drab with repetition or, worse, heavy with pressure. You seem to find a way to lighten their spirit. You inject drama into every project. You celebrate every achievement. You find ways to make everything more exciting and more vital. Some cynics may reject your energy, but you are rarely dragged down. (UGH not true...) Your Positivity won't allow it. Somehow you can't quite escape your conviction that it is good to be alive, that work can be fun, and that no matter what the setbacks, one must never lose one's sense of humor.
Context You look back. (Damn right..) You look back because that is where the answers lie. You look back to understand the present. From your vantage point the present is unstable, a confusing clamor of competing voices. It is only by casting your mind back to an earlier time, a time when the plans were being drawn up, that the present regains its stability. The earlier time was a simpler time. It was a time of blueprints. As you look back, you begin to see these blueprints emerge. You realize what the initial intentions were. These blueprints or intentions have since become so embellished that they are almost unrecognizable, but now this Context theme reveals them again. This understanding brings you confidence. No longer disoriented, you make better decisions because you sense the underlying structure. You become a better partner because you understand how your colleagues came to be who they are. And counterintuitively you become wiser about the future because you saw its seeds being sown in the past. Faced with new people and new situations, it will take you a little time to orient yourself, but you must give yourself this time. You must discipline yourself to ask the questions and allow the blueprints to emerge because no matter what the situation, if you haven't seen the blueprints, you will have less confidence in your decisions. (ohh)
Haha~not very true...
more:
Your Empathy can be challenging because you may become overwhelmed with all of the emotions you can pick up in a day.
You have a natural ability for getting in touch with the feelings of others. Hone this talent by refining the words you use to name the feelings you experience and those you observe in others. Help others name their feelings, as well. People who can name their feelings seem to work better with other people.
At times your Empathy talents can drain you, if you are not careful to develop rituals at the end of each day that allow you to "decompress."
Absorbing others' emotions sometimes leads to experiencing those emotions yourself. Establish clear boundaries between yourself and those to whom you connect.
You are an emotional person, and you need to express your own emotions to someone you trust.
hmM... true...
I was supposed to go for CCC (drama) today but I went to a LEO club meeting & I realised to my horror that my name is not inside the groupings. So I'm like, wondering ...what is going on? so am I in LEO club or not??? =.= UGH. & I left after the meeting because ...I wasn't even technically a member. I really don't get it!!! then I was afraid to go to CCC because I was late...
so ugh...i went home. omg I will be killed for this. but yar...(".) anyway when I was going to the room for CCC, I ...think 我好像看到他。outside the room
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